The courage to dance
Taking children seriously under scrutiny takes courage and can feel lonely, but someone has to start.
explanations
The relationship-building power of explanations
The magic of an explanation, of knowledge discovery, is that it is a win-win solution, and often a nearly effortless one at that.
Taking Children Seriously: a new view of children
Taking Children Seriously is a new VIEW of children—a non-paternalistic view: children do not actually need to be controlled for their own good. An Oxford Karl Popper Society talk.
A discussion about whether problems are solvable
Those who believe the conflict-of-interest theory alleging that problems are not soluble will always be puzzled when they find a situation that looks like an inherent conflict of interest but turns out not to be, as commonly happens when people start taking their children seriously.
Explanations and experience
Sometimes you can explain in terms of your experience; but not when it comes to drinking bleach, presumably!
How about explaining to your children?
Explaining dangers is much safer than just forbidding access to them.